this hits home to me.
my son--now 42, was d/f a few years ago. i hadnt had any contact with him for 30 years. now--we are good mates. he is done with the cult. he has remarried--a lovely 3 year old son---the only grandchild i have ever met or spoken with.
his mother--my born in first wife..totally shuns him. never met her grandson.. what a waste.
altogether now--ITS A CULT...and i hate it.